Love Your Naked Truth
Talk About Sex Without Fear of Being Shamed
Sexuality is part of being human. It can also carry some of the heaviest shame people bring into therapy.
You may be struggling with desire. Intimacy. Sexual identity. Fantasy. Sexual shame.
Pornography use. The impact of trauma. Or behavior that feels out of control.
Maybe you simply want a place where you can say what is true without watching someone flinch.
Strip It Down Therapy provides sex-positive, sexuality-focused and OCSB/sex addiction therapy for adults. In-person appointments are available near Fishers, and virtual sessions are available to adults throughout Indiana.
Let’s just throw normal out the window! In this space, heterosexuality, religion and society no longer define what normal is
when it comes to you and sex. When those historical norms are imposed on others, they become a breeding ground for
shame.
It is a healthy sexuality. Find your Freak and Have Some Fun!
You get to define what a healthy and satisfying sexual life means for you, while making room for honesty, responsibility and the impact of your choices.
Sometimes sexual behavior stops feeling like a choice.
You do something you promised yourself you would stop. Then you do it again.
Pornography, masturbation, hookups, fantasy, online sexual activity or another behavior may have become your primary coping skill.
It may be affecting your work. Your finances. Your emotional health. Your integrity. Your self-respect.
Then shame gets added to the cycle. And shame creates even more pressure to escape.
Kim is trained in treating Out of Control Sexual Behavior, commonly called OCSB. People may also search for help using terms such as compulsive sexual behavior, porn addiction or sex addiction. Whatever language brought you here, treatment does not have to begin by shaming sexuality itself.
Shame can come from abuse, coercion, religious or cultural messages, identity-based rejection, secrecy, betrayal, body image, past decisions or the belief that your desires make you unacceptable.
Therapy can help separate what happened to you from who you are, identify responsibility accurately and challenge the belief that pain or regret makes you permanently unworthy.
When sexual concerns are connected to trauma, the work can move at a pace that respects your nervous system and does not demand disclosure before you are ready.
You should not have to spend half your appointment educating your therapist. You should not have to defend who you are. You should not have to justify consensual parts of your life before talking about why you are hurting.
Strip It Down Therapy is affirming of LGBTQ+ adults, kink and BDSM communities, sex workers, polyamory and consensual non-monogamy. Consensual identity, interests and relationship structures are not automatically pathologized.
Kim has spent more than 30 years working in addiction and more than 15 years treating complex trauma. She is a member
of the global Sexual Health Alliance (SHA), an LGBTQ+ ally and a sex-positive therapist. She is trained in OCSB/sex addiction,
BDSM, kink and polyamory/consensual non-monogamy, and is working toward her sex therapy certification.
That matters because sexuality rarely exists in isolation. Therapy can make room for desire, trauma, substance use, shame, identity, emotional regulation and behavior at the same time.
Kim is candid, engaged, compassionate and direct.
Adults in Fishers and nearby Central Indiana communities may choose in-person sessions at the Fishers office. Adults throughout Indiana may choose secure virtual therapy, creating access to sex-positive and affirming care without needing to live close to Fishers.
No cleaned-up version of your story is required.
